As a therapist, I consider it my duty to educate others on awareness of “red flag” behavior in mental health that may be precursor behavior/issues to more serious and dangerous forms of thinking. Situations around us can cause us to feel desperate, hopeless, low, and invisible.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy teaches us that negative thoughts are “brewing” these feelings.
For example, “I can’t do anything right,” “No one appreciates me,” “No one would miss me if I was not here,” and “I am invisible” may be thoughts that generate feelings of depression, anxiety, low self-value, frustration, disappointment, and sadness. Other risk factors include previous trauma including child abuse, sexual violence, exposure to war, substance abuse, and bullying.
Common red flags that may indicate a person is experiencing suicidal ideation are as follows: feeling extreme depression, guilt, or shame; feeling hopeless; talking about or having a preoccupation with death or suicide; preparing for death (i.e., updating or preparing a will, giving away possessions – especially highly valued possessions, or taking steps to access lethal means like buying a firearm, acquiring quantities of pills/medication, or researching ways to die).